We Deserve To Travel, Too! Travel Tips for Today's Single Parents

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The term "family vacation" has changed through the years. The good thing is, today's single parents are taking it upon themselves to modify the definition, and create lasting memories despite society's cliche way of thinking.  In preparing for your next vacation with your prized possessions, take note of these travel tips to prepare for a safe and well deserved vacation!

Preparation Is Everything - Create a travel checklist.  Go down the list and confirm each item to prepare for smooth sailing. Confirm all reservations (air, hotel, pre-reserved tours, etc.) at least 48 hrs. prior to departure. Confirm travel agreements with the co-parent to clear legal issues and offer a peace of mind - for both parents.  Be sure to obtain an official child photo I.D. and notarized documentation stating permission to travel with child.  The I.D. and documentation also assist in determining legal guardianship of the child during the duration of travel, as well as in extreme cases such as kidnappings/missing child reports.

Joint and Independent Activities - The intentions of vacationing with your child is to build lasting memories and bonds.  But, every now and then, everyone needs a little space.  Having both options make for wonderful accommodations. Beaches offers some of the best exclusive kid/teen programs within the Caribbean on a budget. And for the child who's destined for stardom, the Buccament Bay Resort (St. Vincent and The Grenadines) offers the world-reknowned, Harlequin Performing Arts Academy.  The program is taught by Broadway and West End professionals and offered to both adolescents and adults. They also offer the Harlequin Sports Academy, the first Caribbean destination offering a Liverpool Football Club Soccer School.  This is an excellent activity for dad and son - or even mom and daughter!

Security - Whether mom or dad, there is always concern for safety on travel. Knowing that on-site security and surveillance is active relieves anxiety.  Ask management to identify surveillance units (cameras, detectors, etc.) on the premises as well as security posts. Fending for the safety of yourself and your child is a challenge.  But, one should not be prevented from traveling as long as proper security measures are executed.  

Local/Environment Awareness - Spending quality time with your child is priceless!  Yet, that same level of enjoyment may not be shared with locals outside resort grounds.  Always conduct local research and ask for referrals, especially when traveling internationally.  Have a good understanding of the local culture, and know what areas do and do not cater to adults traveling with children.  Be sure that accommodations offer an array of activities for both you and child to prevent the cold shoulder, and to ensure a fun and positive time for everyone.   

Travel As A Group - Keeping an eye on your children every waking moment is a task.  But, traveling with other trusted companions (other single parents and/or family members) offers a support system and the opportunity to feel less tension. Join or form a vacation club for other single parents who share similar vacation lifestyles.  Everyone must serve a role!

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